I took a good friend of mine, Bob, out with me this week. Bob grew up around the lake at his grandparents and fished with his grandpa. He moved away, grew up got married had kids and quit fishing. I'm getting him back into it. I created a little monster. Bob and I work together, so the next morning he comes to work and immediately starts in on me for not baiting his hook or taking the fish off the line. I started laughing and went right along saying he did not pay me for the guide service so he was on his own. We had a really great evening and caught a livewell full of fish. That next morning his concern was that I had not cleaned his fish, furthermore when was I going to have him and family over for supper so that he could eat his fish. I like Bob.
Judy and I are experiencing our daughters sickness. Each day is a new feeling and brings with it a whole new set of issues. What we are going through does not compare with what Trish is going through we know. It is just the pain and the feeling of helplessness that we cannot seem to get a grip on. I will say that at times like this it is family and the presence of good friends that help make the pain a little less. Each of us deal with the situation a little differently. We each have our moments. Together we seem to draw strength off each other. It is hard to hear folks ask about her and its really hard when you hear yourself saying that its not good, or its just a matter of time or anyone of a number of ways to say that which I can not yet write down. I really hate cancer.
So, to those of you that read this, thank you for support. Please understand when we answer you with tears and a smile. Its a hard thing to lose anyone, especially a child. Please don't stop your prayers and thoughts. We think it is what is getting us through.
I think we'll go fishing......
Thanks.
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